'Tao Po': Dimples Romana, piniling bumuo agad ng pamilya noon dahil sa takot na mamatay ng maaga
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Hinahangaan si Dimples Romana sa maraming karakter niyang ginampanan na tumatak sa mga manonood.
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Ngayong Mother's Day, kilalanin natin siya sa papel na pinaka-paborito niya bilang isang ina.
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Halos tatlong dekada ng patuloy na namamayagpag sa kanyang karera si Dimples Romana.
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Ang mahiwagang agwa-bindita kay doktor.
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Mula kay Criselda, Alvira, hanggang kay Daniela, at Celine.
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Ngayong Mayo, makikilala natin.
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At naman natin siya bilang si Tori sa High Street, ang sequel ng hit drama series na Senior High.
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Tori is a venture capitalist.
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Everything she does is always intentional.
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So how would you compare Tori with Dimples?
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She's just very mindful.
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Ako kasi, I may appear very random to you, but I don't do or say anything that I don't want to say or do.
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So that I think is Tori.
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I'm the same way.
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This woman saved my life.
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Bilang batikan sa larangan, gusto ni Dimples na natcha-challenge siya.
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Naghahanda siyang mabuti para sa bawat karakter na ibinibigay sa kanya.
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It's a common misconception when you grew up in a business like I did na everything comes in easy because nasanay ka na.
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But in reality, at least for me, if you give me this, I'll work on it.
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It gives you a sense of pride in everything that you do.
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Because you know, pinaghihirapan mo yun.
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Pero sa lahat ng papel na ginampana ni Dimples, isa ang patuloy niyang pinaghihirapan.
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Ang pagiging ina sa tatlong anak nila ni Boyet Amie.
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Si Nakali, Alonzo at Ilyo.
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Aminado si Dimples, mabigat ang pinagdaanan niya dahil pinili niyang maaga magkaroon ng pamilya sa edad na 20.
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It's judged na you're too young.
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You will not know what to do because you're young.
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Why did you want to have a family early?
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But kasi that was an intentional child.
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Kali was not an accident.
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We really wanted to have a child.
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But that was coming from my fear of dying early.
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My papa kasi passed away at 40, aneurysm.
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I had a sister who died at 9, leukemia.
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So because I have that in the family, I always thought, sana mag-asawa ako or magkaanak ako maaga para matry ko man lang maging nanay.
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Sa mga panahon ito, naging sandala ni Dimples ang asawa.
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Boyet would always tell me na at the end of the day, kahit anong sabihin ng ibang tao, you always look at the eyes of your children.
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They will tell you exactly who you are.
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You look at them and when they see you as a hero, you're okay. None of the other things will matter.
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At dahil working mom, malaking hamon kay Dimples ang pagsabayin ang karyer at pagiging hands-on mommy.
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I wake up in the morning.
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I pray, I do my skin care, my husband makes me coffee in the morning and then he brings me to the car.
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I go to the Kapatid Network for a show.
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I drive back home to have lunch with my family and then leave for my teleseriatyping.
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And if I want to be present in their lives, I have to make time.
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Kaya naman mahalaga para kay Dimples ang bonding moments kasama ang mga anak.
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And she's cute because she's clingy in the sense that she would say,
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you guys didn't call me back last night with Alonzo.
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I'm trying to teach him how to treat a woman.
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May nakita kong IG video na nag-re-release ako.
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Oo, nilalagay ko lang yung camera kasi nga, dira ko lang silang kasama.
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Gusto ko lang makapture yung time na nasa bahay ako para pag nalulungkot ako, meron akong tinitignan.
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Pagdating sa parenting style, kakaiba rin ang technique ni na Dimples.
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Yung parenting naman namin is always based upon their personality, not really upon our rules.
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It's not that. We change the rules depending on how the children are.
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I'm the more strict one.
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Especially with school and values.
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Tapos I'm big on po, top po.
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How were you and your husband able to make your parenting style?
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Ah, along the way.
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Us parents, natutunan namin din po.
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Now we think we're raising the kids.
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The kids are actually raising us.
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At the end of the day, it's always about you listening to your kids, even in their silence.
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Bilang ina, walang ibang nais si Dimples kundi ang matupad ang pangarap ng kanyang mga anak.
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Kahit paibig sabihin ito, ay malalayo sila sa kanya.
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Gaya ng panganay na si Callie, na isang licensed commercial pilot sa Australia.
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I see Callie, she's having fun.
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She's a pilot now. She's living her dream.
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I'm totally okay with it.
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And I feel that's the healthiest form of love.
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That even when you are not the reason na happiness niya, at okay ka dun.
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That means the kind of love you offer is good for a lifetime and more.
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Bago umalis si Callie pa Australia, isang hindi malilimutang regalo ang iniwan niya sa kanyang mga magulang.
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Christmas gift niya sa amin were rings.
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May engraving ang tatlong ring na yun. Wala pa kasing ilyo nun.
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So ang naka-engrave,
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ay number ng bahay namin, na OG.
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And in her letter, she had said, an excerpt na,
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Mama, I hope these rings would symbolize that whatever I do, wherever I go,
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everything I do will be because of and leads to home.
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So imagine, when you are able to love your child in this way,
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Ayoko na niya ako i-interviewin.
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Sobrang dami ko na itututunan kasi nga since mine is 3 years old pa lang, it's my first.
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So parang, wow, gusto kong gawin ito for my kid.
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Kaya parang iniisip ko, where do you get all this stuff?
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Wala namang paggagalingan yung wisdom kung di pain.
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I have had many losses in my life to understand that blessings aren't necessarily always things that are given to you,
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but also things and people who are taken away.
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Sabi ni Dimples, masarap maging magulang, pero ito rin ang pinaka nakakatakot.
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Walang take two sa pagiging nanay.
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If you mess this up, that is one potentially sad human being.
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I don't want anybody coming out of my house sad.
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I want my children to get out of my house independent, happy children.
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I want success, but not really their priority.
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Ang katatagan at tapang ni Dimples, sa kabila ng sakit at mga pagsubok,
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ang ilan sa mga dahilan kung bakit talagang humanga ako sa kanya.
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Isang inang, sabi niya, hindi perfecto, pero nagsusumikap para sa mga mahal sa buhay.
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Ano yung best thing about being a mom?
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I feel like the best part of being a mom is just having that little piece of your heart,
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actually beating outside of you.
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I want to make sure that that piece of my heart is beating for the right reasons.
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Artista, asawa, ina.
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Ibat-ibang papel, ibat-ibang hamon, pero lahat ay ginagawa ng may buong pagmamahal.
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Isang karangalan ang pagiging ina para kay Dimples.
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Ang papel na nagbibigay sa buhay niya ng pinakamasasayang karanasan at pinakamalalim na kahulugan.
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Ang pagbibigay na pinakamasasayang karanasan ay pinakamalalim na kahulugan.
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Ang pagbibigay na pinakamasasayang karanasan ay pinakamalalim na kahulugan.
