JAIGA BREAK UP - THE POST VALENTINES BREAK UP - (Jai Asuncion and Agassi Ching issue)
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So, matagal na talagang merong hiwalayan factor.
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I think naayos pa nila ito for a while pero ngayon talaga.
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Siguro there's something that yung sinasabi nilang broke the camel's back and naghiwalay na talaga.
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So, panoorin lang natin ito ng konti tapos ituloy na natin doon sa post ni Jai for today's video.
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And ilang weeks rin yan, no?
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Lately lang ulit kami nagkita.
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Nagkita ni Jai dito sa Taiwan trip kasi itong Taiwan trip na to is binook namin noong March pa kasama ng Team Choi.
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Noong okay-okay pa kami lang.
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Kasi kaya itong Taiwan trip namin ano to last March pa may delayed flight kasi kami noon.
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So, parang nagkaroon kami ng free flight papunta.
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So, mga sumama na lang kami.
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Kami kung sino yung kasama namin sa Taiwan.
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Kaya tinuloy namin kasi tinry.
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Nag-try din kami to work things out.
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Actually, so parang ano nga lang eh.
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Actually, dapat din na si Jai sasama dun sa trip na yun sa Taiwan.
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Last minute siya sumama kasi nga, yun nga, syempre, more on iwas kami sa, ayaw niya ako makita.
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Iwas sa time sa isa't isa, ganyan.
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Pero nag-decide rin na, sige, baka ito na yung ano, ma-rekindle, maayos, o baka makusap.
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Nagtatry pa sila.
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So, yun talaga yung unang usap namin.
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Yung unang usap namin sa, ay doon kami nag-uusap na magkakasama sa Taiwan.
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Mukhang, mukhang tinry talaga nila guys.
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Kasi, ako personally, nakita ko silang dalawa.
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Syempre, hindi ko naman linapitan.
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Hindi ko naman sila ka-close. Nakakaya naman, di ba?
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Hi! I know a lot of you guys are asking about Aga and I.
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We tried to work things out. Pero hanggang dito na lang po talaga.
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It was a wonderful, almost five years relationship with Aga.
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And I, I learned a lot from him.
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And we were both, ah, we were both made each other happy for the past.
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And I, I learned a lot from him. And we were both, ah, we were both made each other happy for the past.
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And we were both made each other happy for the past.
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Okay, so nakita nyo dito five years according to Jay.
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Okay, so nakita nyo dito five years according to Jay.
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Siguro they tried to work things out.
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Sige-siguro, they tried to work things out.
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Kaya lang talaga, hindi talaga, alam nyo yun, yung hindi talaga pwedeng ipilit, okay?
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Kaya lang talaga, hindi talaga, alam nyo yun, yung hindi talaga pwedeng ipilit, okay?
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I just want to make it clear that, ah,
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for me, our relationship was never about clout.
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my love for Aga was genuine and influenced,
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My love for Aga was genuine and influenced,
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not influenced by our careers.
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So, ah, very good.
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At least, alam natin na hindi talaga sila poor the clout.
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And dati pa naman sila, biski wala pang kasikatan, correct, diba?
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This wasn't an easy choice, but we believe that it is the right one, okay?
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We respect your decision, Madam Jai and Sir Agassi.
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I wasn't expecting this to happen either because we were the happiest.
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Doing things together, achieving our dreams together.
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I really tried my best for our relationship to work.
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Okay, ito lang, medyo gusto ko lang i-highlight yung sinabi nyo.
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And kinonfirm nga yan ni Agassi, diba?
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Talagang mukhang isang tao lang yung, medyo one-sided.
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Siguro, I'm not sure, pero yung impression ko rito,
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based from what was said last year and what was said today,
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mukhang siya lang yung nagtatrabaho tungkol doon sa relationship nila.
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This won't be easy for me as well because I know myself and how much love I love him
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because I guess God has better plan for us, for me, okay?
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To our Jai Gafa, thank you for your support since the beginning.
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Sobra ako nagpapasalamat.
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Hindi nyo kami iniwan kahit nagkaroon kami ng problema.
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Your love for us are one.
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One of the reasons kung bakit kami nagpapatuloy sa mga ginagawa namin.
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Iba yung nagagawa ng pagmamahal ninyo sa aming dalawa
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and without you guys, wala kami sa kung saan kami ngayon.
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And I'm very grateful for that.
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Thank you for changing our lives.
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We will keep on doing things on our own.
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From the bottom of my heart, thank you so much for the support,
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for being part of our journey, okay?
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Pero okay lang yun.
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Alam nyo naman na breakup is very typical,
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especially for young couples or young individuals.
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Of course, hindi na common yun kung medyo matured ka na.
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Pero I do think naman na nasa age range pa rin
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ng si Jai at saka si Agassi.
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They are prone to commit mistakes,
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especially sa position nila that they are very famous,
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na konting galaw lang nila.
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And you know, I think we should, end of the day,
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respect their decision as individuals, diba?
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Wala namang masama doon na makipag-breakup ka.
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Huwag nyo isipin na pag nag-breakup yung mga tao,
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may cheating, may ganun.
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Sometimes, merong mga bagay talaga na hindi para sa'yo.
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And naging amicable naman yung breakup nila.
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Ibig sabihin, walang bitterness, walang siraanan nangyari.
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And that's good, right?
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O, siguro naman masasabi natin na hindi third party yung
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or love triangle yung daging dahilan ng kanilang paghihiwalayan.
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Pero having said that, siguro magandang ipasok din
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ng itong kaalaman sa mga otak nyo
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para hindi puro chismis, diba?
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So, nung 1980s, merong isang psychologist
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who goes by the name Sternberg
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na kinlassify niya kung ano yung eight types of love na tinatawag.
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Itong triangular.
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Theory and the eight types of love.
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So, in the paradigm of Sternberg sa pagmamahalan or sa love,
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kailangan may tatlong factors dapat yun.
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According to his paradigm, mga kamates, mga kaibigan,
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kailangan meron kang intimacy,
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meron kang commitment,
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at meron kang passion.
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Yung commitment, of course, kailangan hindi ka mabababa.
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You have to be faithful.
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You have to be faithful to your partner.
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Yung intimacy naman, you have to be...
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Okay lang, kailangan meron kayong bonding moments.
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Yung passion naman, it's...
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Well, it's romance.
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Basically, yan yung tatlong factors ng love
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para magkaroon ka ng tinatawag natin na consummate love.
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You have to have passion, you have to be intimate,
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and you have to be committed.
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Yun yung tatlong factors na dapat meron ka
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to achieve consummate love.
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kailangang agasi, siguro,
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meron silang passion, of course.
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I would say that they are passionate with each other
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and meron din silang intimate.
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So, we can classify their love as romantic love,
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mga kamates, mga kaibigan,
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in the paradigm of Mr. Sternberg.
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Wala lang siguro yung commitment factor doon
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kasi nga, nagkahiwalay sila.
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So, kailangan kasi committed ka sa isang tao.
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Kahit anong ugali niyan, kahit anong kasiraan niyan,
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kailangan you have to look past that
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to be truly in love with the person.
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Pati yung, ano, di ba yung
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and I love all of you
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na-na-na-na-na-na
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Yeah, just kasi yung kanta ni John Legend na yun,
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it talks about love.
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It talks about love.
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It talks about the loving flaws of someone.
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doon sa nabasa ko sa kanya,
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he tried really hard na
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mahalin si Agassi.
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And siguro si Agassi din,
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he tried his best para
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Kaso hindi talaga kaya.
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Siguro in another lifetime,
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magiging sila or maybe,
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sabi nga sa kanta, di ba,
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we had the right love
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At the wrong time.
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nagustuhan ko yung
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how they handled their situation.
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Nag-explain sila sa fans sila.
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And they moved on.
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They first tried to fix it on their own.
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Nung hindi na kaya,
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ayan na, naglabas na ng statement.
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I am going to hope for the best dito sa mga batang to.
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And sa susunod na team Payaman,
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magpapaselfie ako sa inyong dalawa.
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bawal lang drama.
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Yun lang naman yung sa akin for today,
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mga kamalit sa mga kaibigan.
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Ngayagay, mga lads.
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Thank you for watching!
